Hard to live in the world like this,
where Usher's singing "Let is burn" and
"Can't do the right thing and move on .. gotta let it go ... " ,
and Mario Winan's singing " i don't wanna know,
and if you are playing me keep it on the low " ,
are all the single guys that desperate of a relationship,
even in one that they know it might not really work out ?
and choose to live in a lie?
i don't know, i mean i found myself in the similar situation too,
don't wanna move on , and hoping there's another chance,
maybe sometimes we do need patience,
maybe sometimes .. we do need a break from all of it ..
and let guys be guys .. and stop worrying about all these
stuff about girls.
i guess we all demanded truth, wanted truth , yet when it's
time to make the decision we rather hide behind our own imagination,
or our own expectation of what gonna happen next ..
it's always great to have a "REALITY CHECK" from someone,
truth and honesty hurts, and yeah i can testify to that,
but that's only one part of life ,
there are many other parts that we can be thankful of,
thank GOD there's a band called Switchfoot
that sing " Time is never money, life is more than cash, life is still
more than girls, more than 100 dollars bills ... "
and songs like "Hunter" from Dido that talks about freedom from relationships (unprecedented huh .. ) ...
well .. ya know ..
there's a SEASON for everything,
cherish the season you are in ( i need that myself) ...
Here's something to read on ..
A Time for Everything
There is a time for everything,
and a season for every activity under heaven:
2 a time to be born and a time to die,
a time to plant and a time to uproot,
3 a time to kill and a time to heal,
a time to tear down and a time to build,
4 a time to weep and a time to laugh,
a time to mourn and a time to dance,
5 a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them,
a time to embrace and a time to refrain,
6 a time to search and a time to give up,
a time to keep and a time to throw away,
7 a time to tear and a time to mend,
a time to be silent and a time to speak,
8 a time to love and a time to hate,
a time for war and a time for peace.